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  1. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    okay. what? have you ever used a condom? Condoms are around 85-90% effective with perfect use (that is: they're used by someone who knows how to put one on, they're used properly, they're well in the use-by date and they're used with lubricant) and with 'usual use', which takes into...
  2. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Because there's a massive developmental difference between a foetus and a newborn? o.O
  3. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    I've heard this too; I've also heard other places like Scarleteen (which is a pretty good resource for sexual education, imo) and the Feminist's Women's Health Centre say that this isn't the case. This is also interesting. Sure, but there are alternatives to the Pill like Depo Provera...
  4. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    I do think that abortions should be available for whoever wants them whenever, I just think it's silly and downright stupid to use abortion as a contraceptive instead of an actual contraceptive. What's the point? condoms/pills are pretty much pain-free (emotionally/physically) compared to an...
  5. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    no it is not I'm all for abortion but it is not a contraceptive; it's a last resort. It shouldn't matter if you're too drunk to care, everybody should have the responsibility to use contraception. If you're 'too drunk', well either don't get drunk or don't have sex if you think you're going to...
  6. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Yeah, that's the same with me. I can't even look after myself, let alone a child.
  7. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    I think one of the worst things about the abortion issue is the stigma attached to it; too many people see abortion as 'teen girl gets knocked up and still wants to party' and don't realise that abortion is in many cases circumstancial. :|
  8. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Where did anybody say about the legal implications of the father having input? I don't think anybody did. What people are trying to say is that it's ultimately silly for a woman to refuse any support the father might offer and just be pregnant alone, abortion or not. To do this it's actually in...
  9. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    What the hell? Why are you making out this whole anti-male thing? It's like the man isn't even important if she gets pregnant. Uh, newsflash, it takes two people to get a woman pregnant. Most women don't want to have to deal with all the hormonal junk and carrying a baby on their own. Most would...
  10. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Huh? tbh, I don't think men should have the final decision about abortion, but it still should be discussed (assuming that the guy doesn't run off) between the couple - because it's not just the woman's responsibility - it's the guy's too. I do think that the woman should have the final say on...
  11. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Would you rather see a teen mother trying to hold down a job or on the street, looking after a baby or a teen mother on family support who owns a small flat and can at least look after her baby? Why should people who already have money get more money anyway? Struggling families get family...
  12. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    Wait till you hit puberty and get a girl/boyfriend. That's all great in theory but it just doesn't always happen in practice. Also, it doesn't matter how long you think about the future before sex, condoms are still going to break and the pill isn't always going to work, whether you've thought...
  13. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    You realise there are people in this world, having sex right now who have never had sufficient sexual education and don't even know what contraception is? But hey, they should be punished for not knowing - let's give them a baby to think about their troubles. Do you know of any teens would be...
  14. ultraviolet

    Abortion

    I personally don't think anyone has the right to say that ABORTION IS MURDER DONT DO IT D: because you're not in their situation. Pro-choice, baby.
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